It’s Time to Love Yourself Fully.
Last November I hit a financial challenge and I asked my friends and family for help. Not long after, my laptop broke and I went to the ER for severe abdominal pain and discovered I had two health conditions.
In the span of one month, my world crumbled and I was forced to see how not taking care of myself and prioritizing myself contributed to that all happening.
In 2014 I made a conscious choice to reflect on my past abusive relationships and heal what was inside me that allowed others to abuse me. I learned so much since then and I’m so happy and blessed to say I’ve successfully broken that pattern.
Because it changed my life so positively, I wanted to share all I learned with others. But instead of trusting that I knew exactly what to do, just like I had trusted myself in 2014 to quit a corporate job and go no contact with an ex, I felt like I needed to learn business, marketing, website creation and sales from others. And while I have learned so much and am grateful for that, the truth is that I was still giving my power away and looking to others to tell me what to do because I didn’t trust myself to expand all on my own.
Last November, as a result of that breaking point, I was forced to slow down and tune into myself again, just like I did in 2014 which began and propelled my healing journey. Slowing down, listening to and taking care of myself has helped me to heal and rebuild since November. I have literally noticed a difference in my health and energy and I am so grateful. Since I’ve been focusing on myself and loving myself, I’ve also regained trust and faith in myself. Now I am in alignment again.
What I’ve learned from all this is that it all comes back to self-love. Healing and rebuilding after any crisis all begins with a decision to love yourself and that might mean letting go of something stressful or unhealthy so that you can give yourself what you need–or even find what you need–if you’ve always been focused on others and forgot what you need. But it always means prioritizing and listening to yourself. That is the essence of building and strengthening self-love and healing yourself.
As I always say, feeling the unconditional love of the Angels changed my life and amplified my healing journey. It was truly a new way to see the world. But ultimately, what began and what continues my healing, expansion, growth, happiness, fulfillment and ability to give to others is cultivating and growing the love I have for myself. It’s listening to myself, nurturing myself, taking care of myself, prioritizing myself, accepting myself and putting myself first instead of others so that I do not become drained or taken advantage of. It’s being conscious of where and with whom I give my energy, time and attention to.
Many of you are also highly-sensitive and/or empaths and know what I mean about not prioritizing yourself and giving so much that you become drained and even sick. In order to avoid all that is to cultivate self-love and self-care…to become a priority in your own life.
If you want to begin or amplify your self-love healing journey, I am here for you. I’m opening up a brand new program, called the Self-Love Mindset. In it, I will teach you all that I have learned on how to listen to your thoughts, accept them and then reprogram them in order to love yourself. This program will have weekly journaling prompts, many questions so that you can reflect and uncover your true feelings, thoughts, wants, needs, values, beliefs, and desires. There will be videos to show you my daily energy healing and grounding practices. There will also be weekly Affirmations channeled by the Angels to build your self-love, self-worth and self-acceptance. In addition, there will be guided meditations I create with the Angels and twice monthly group Healing with the Angels events. All of this will be contained in a private Facebook group so that you can study and reflect at your own pace in the comfort of your own home, as well as, keep a certain level of anonymity, if you choose. You will only need to share what you wish but I highly encourage participation and sharing as I know the strength and value of support groups.
Just to give you an idea of what I’m teaching regarding journaling and reprogramming your mind. I created this entire process myself and practiced it for a year. Then I sought out therapy from a well-respected therapist who specializes in trauma recovery. She told me that I was the most advanced of all her clients, just because I chose to do the work on my mindset all on my own. She often asked me for tips on what I was doing to heal and took book recommendations from me. When I decided to leave I knew it was because I was giving her more than she was giving me. I was teaching her instead of the other way around.
The energy healing component helped, to be fair, but the mindset work was first and foremost. Our mindset and thoughts create our reality so it is really important to recognize them so that you can shift unsupportive thoughts and beliefs. Shifting your mindset can shift your energy and thus, your reality will shift.
I have worked and studied a lot with trauma and recovery and know that reprogramming your thoughts with just talk-therapy can take years and it is a lot of work, as well as can be quite uncomfortable.
Doing the journaling work for myself as well as adding in the component of Healing with the Angels was the key for me. I know it works and it is faster than anything else. And with the help of the Angels, I will take you through a gentle process, unlike what I had when I first started. I not only will teach you what I did to heal my mindset and create self-love, but I will teach you better, so that you heal with support and in a gentler way than I did, as I was alone at first.
This program relies heavily on your ability to do the work of listening to your thoughts, journaling and then consciously reprogramming your thoughts through Affirmation work. It is geared for those who are ready to learn their true wants and needs, who want to heal thought-patterns that aren’t serving them, who want to be able to trust themselves and who want to learn how to conserve and rebuild their energy.
Make a commitment to loving yourself in your thoughts, actions, and habits and see what is possible to bring into your life. See how what seemed impossible before–now, almost miraculously–enters your life. Join now if you truly want to heal your mindset and create more self-love so that you can attract your desires to yourself.
Remember to keep loving yourself, everyday. It is a practice.